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December 13, 2025Bill Reilly

Title: Facade

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up. – Ephesians 4:29a

When I think of the word Facade most days, I think of the exterior of one of my hotel buildings. Today, my thoughts went to my facade as a Christian man and Christian men in general.

I began to think about how I appear to others vs. how I am in my faith, and whether I give myself to Jesus. I challenge myself and don’t always live up to it, and I ask: Is this just me, or is it normal to question myself? Over the years, I sometimes called myself a stage Christian. I earned the name one day, serving communion to my congregation just about one hour after I cursed my children up and down for fighting me on attending worship. It hit me like a ton of bricks. Today was one of those days again, I put on my facade. Whether it be the hotel executive, father, husband, Ex-soldier, or a faithful Christian man, I give myself totally to him every day in all my actions, not a facade or fraudulent actions.

Real men wear the true Christian Facade daily in all aspects of their lives.
Dec 13, 2025Bill Reilly

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Bill Reilly

Rebecca and I have lived in SW Florida since 2018, moving from Valparaiso, IN, where they raised three children, William III, Patrick, and Rachel. Bill and Rebecca have been married for 29 years. I currently work for White Lodging Services, and Rebecca is officially retired from school teaching. As a couple, we attend Cape Vineyard Community Church in Cape Coral, FL. Rebecca and I are very active at Cape Vineyard: Rebecca in children’s ministry, and I in band media and supporting facilities.
My interests include Hunting/Fishing and traveling with Rebecca to visit the children and grandchildren. My happy place is the UP of Michigan, where Rebecca and I share time their now.

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